They say you realize who are your true friends when something happens. I guess, i finally learnt that it’s true. Along with it comes a hefty price tag.

Due to my carelessness, i ruined my newly bought wallet. I was devastated & in despair when the SA told me they could do nothing about it. The only good thing that came up of this disaster is those friends who genuinely care.

Naturally, everyone goes oh no, OMG, huh, damn heart pain & start offering advices if they have any knowledge about it, offer consolation, hug or at least bother to ask some more to show they care. I’m deeply touched by them who still commented on the colour and design of the wallet purposefully ignoring the damage & James who offered to get me another wallet (not Prada of cos) with his NSF pay. 

” Spending alot of time together doesnt necessarily give it importance.”

” Because without them, i’m nothing.”

You dont need to have the brains. You need friends who may not necessary have the brains too but are willing to help you resolve it like googling. Small gestures goes a long way. If it wouldn’t for those who showed their concern, i would have cried my eyeballs out. it’s their encouragement that pulls me through. They fill up the part i’m lacking, like the smile on my face today. I dont know how i managed to laugh, but i did. i swear i feel much better when Damala passed me that Hello Kitty marshmallow cos she knows i hearts HK. It’s not about the huge pack i got but about her remembering me. 

And to you, it’s the second time within these few months. Instead of comfort, sarcasm? If there is double standard existing within you. Well.. i guess i know, we cant be true friends either. 

Praying is intangible, those hugs & messages are tangible & visible. Sometimes, i really thank God for the awesome friends whom he placed around me. Without God and these people He specially chosen for me, i guess all these setbacks are fatal.